Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Journey of Life: The Philosophy

People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFE TIME.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..


When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end..

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you life time lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,

whether you were a reason, a season or a life time.


Anonymous said...

There are two parts to influence: First, influence is powerful; and second, influence is subtle. You wouldn’t let someone push you off course, but you might let someone nudge you off course and not even realize it.

macam-macam yea...

Anak Merdeka said...

Ah .. it was a pleasure to have crossed paths with you too Mave, albeit for a short season .. heh heh! ;-D

Brian Fong said...

that's a great piece Mav but sad to say is only for optimist who only look at the bright side of life.

the fact of life is - naw, dont we all know :-)

anyway, a great piece and I really look forward for more.

Anonymous said...

life? damn it, just love urself...

don't have to give a reason to love urself & damn sure is not for a season...

who gave a damn about human race & all the sh*t... be a more bit selfish!

life is not fair & it will never be... live with it!

fcuk the najib 1m'sia!

bayi said...

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in the most profound way.